Modern man lives in an age of competition. If we turn the pages of history, we would understand that humanity was always in a competitive spirit. What humanity is, was and will be, is thanks to this competitive attitude that he has taken towards his life. To be precise, we are part of a society where everyone is in a competitive world and where everything is evaluated by the standards of competition, VIZ. success and failure, the vanquisher and the vanquished, the winners and the losers.
Human tendency is to applaud the winner and to disregard the loser. The winning syndrome is instigated so much so that no one, even a matured and balanced person, wants to be in the shoes of a loser. This syndrome is injected into the minds at a younger stage itself. Even a kindergarten child is constantly motivated towards success. As a result, his daily life turns into a psychological warfare with himself and with others. He is being prepared by the society not to be downcast at the slightest defeats and to be ever vigilant to move ahead towards the path of success.
The urge to be the winner is so strong that modern man has no time for the lighter side of his life. The phlegmatic man is often turned into melancholic. He has become weary, bored with no time to be humorous. He has no time to be at his self. He does not walk but runs and gallops to be ahead of others.
Where does this attitude take him? He forgets to be generous. He becomes selfish, self-centred and at times inhumane.
In actuality, is there really a winner or loser? Or to lead a happy and joyous life, do we need to be successful always? The answer in both cases is a clear cut ‘NO’. For instance, take the case of a 100 metre race. The man who comes first is generally called the winner and others, losers. If we view from the perspective of a participant, he may not be a loser at all. He might have made great strides in his own way. He might have bettered his performance. If so, can we call him a loser?
In my perspective, we cannot make a demarcation between winners and losers. For, there aren’t winners and losers in real life. There are only participants striving to better their performance. Life is not a question of winning and losing but rather living it joyfully and meaningfully. Many people consider joyful and meaningful life to be one of constant success and winning. But, in reality, it is not so. Life can be made meaningful and joyful, provided one attempts to improve and develop oneself. This improvement and development should not be in comparison with others but rather with himself. In brief, life should be an ongoing endeavour to improve oneself in comparison with one’s past performance.